I found Franklins approach to an argument very enlightening and worth implementing in my own posts and in response to others and possible effective discussion standard for BTM
How to peacefully argue-Ben Franklin
I made it a rule to forbear all direct contradictions to the sentiments of others, and all positive assertion of my own. I even forbade myself the use of every word or expression in the language that imported a fixed opinion, such as "certainly”, "undoubtedly”, etc. I adopted instead of them I conceive”, "I apprehend”, or "I imagine" a thing to be so or so; or "so it appears to me at present”.
When another asserted something that I thought an error, I denied myself the pleasure of contradicting him abruptly, and of showing him immediately some absurdity in his proposition. In answering I began by observing that in certain cases or circumstances his opinion would be right, but in the present case there appeared or semed to me some difference, etc. I soon found the advantage of this change in my manner; the conversations I engaged in went on more pleasantly. The modest way in which I proposed my opinions procured them a readier reception and less contradiction. I had less mortification when I was found to be in the wrong, and I more easily prevailed with others to give up their mistakes and join with me when I happened to be in the right.
-Benjamin Franklin
**So, we don’t win minds by insulting and attacking them, but by reasoning with them.** Below is one writers sediments of Mr. Franklins thoughts on argument and how it relates to his own forum which discusses politics, religion and other controversial issues.
"It seems like good advice. I’ve noticed in some of my previous posts a tendency to word things too strongly, as in “this is the best ___ ever” or “anyone with good critical thinking skills would see that ___” or whatever. (This sort of writing is likely a by-product of my tendency to blog late at night, as I am doing now.)
Fundamentally, Franklin’s technique admits the possibility of being wrong, which I find is critical to good thinking. If you say that a thing is true and that you’ll accept no argument against it, you run the risk of being proven wrong and being unable to correct yourself later without losing face.
You ought to be very careful what you set in stone.
The other thing Franklin is advocating is respect for the opponents position. I’m glad to see that this has been the general spirit here on this site. To my knowledge, no thread has yet been reduced to a name-calling flame-war, which is unusual for a site that discusses religion, politics, and other controversial issues.
This respect goes hand-in-hand with the previous point: A respect for your opponent’s position is born out of the possibility that you might be wrong, and that he might be right.
On the other hand, even if your position is correct, if you say the opponent is stupid or immoral for holding an opposing opinion, his mind immediately closes to your argument and switches to a defensive posture. Your wisdom will fall on deaf ears."
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Steely Dan rocks!
I was unaware that there were different brands of logic. As logic is a subject I rather enjoy and one that requires, at the very least, contextual and ostensive if not explicit definitions, I would love to hear more about these different brands.
How about Pretzel Logic;~0 my
Jane
Thank you for your brand of logic, I must say I was quite refreshed after catching up on all of the input which was started oh so peacefully by Julie Archer with how to peacefully argue Ben Franklin. Hummm, interesting the turns we take to find what we are looking for.
Jane
Julie,
While Ben Franklin wouldn't have even bothered responding to the average street 'serf' (as Borissimo suggested) whether he agreed or disagreed, his personal exploits 'off the record' suggest that Franklin had a 'colorfully' more questionable moral standard off the record.
I think that in the public square, especially with the stakes run up as high as they are at present, decorum is fruitfully weighed against efficacy. The politician, televangelist, and demagogue have the luxury to affect humility where a citizen on the 'front lines' defending his family and home simply does not. At least not always.
There is a time for everything, a season for everything under the sun, said Solomon. I doubt that the disciples tugged on Jesus' sleeve when He was overturning moneychangers' booths or calling religious impostors "brood of vipers!" and "sons of Hell" to remind Him that God is love!
In the first place (as to old Ben himself), Franklin's words may not comport with his deeds. However gracious his recorded rules of discourse may have been, his antics at the 'Hellfire Club' (black masses and orgies!) send a different message.
Secondly: at this time of day, any American unwilling to perform the due diligence necessary to be able to take a stand on the key areas of life -- to defend that stand courageously and without giving quarter -- will be shown in his family history as party to the retrogression of those key areas of life. The way of all flesh throughout history.
These are fighting words for many people on earth:
-"America was once great"
-"Elected officials should not violate laws"
-"America was founded not as a secular community, but as a confederation of demonstrably, palpably Christian commonwealths"
-"It is wrong to teach that sexual perversion is acceptable"
-"The U.S. Constitution is still the law and must be obeyed"
-"There is no law in the Federal Tax Code making the average American liable for paying income taxes"
-"Most denominations and Christian churches are demonstrably unbiblical and not like the NT body of Christ"
-"Atheism is a system of religious faith and has been responsible for more human deaths by far, than has institutional religion under the banner of 'Christianity'"
All of these are serious 'accusations', yet long held by most Americans and forming our national ethos (except Tax Honesty, which is only a few decades since discovery).
There exists a full-court press against average American families today by an odd team comprised of atheists, sexual deviants, socialists, free-rider religious careerists, and sundry hedonists. In public discussion, some of these contestants can feign an air of irenic humility...until their real game is exposed.
I think I prefer my grandmother's advice, "honesty is the best policy" to the advice of Ben 'Hellfire Club' Franklin. Moreover: there exist countless thousands of sweet-nothing chatrooms on the internet. I thought this one was aimed at more important pursuits.
You know the pursuits I mean: those that Ben Franklin was publicly dedicated to.
Re. your list of beliefs which you think are unequivocally true, and which you will accept no disagreement over. Since we still have a separation between church and state in this country, and no one is going to come over and arrest me for this response, here goes:
-"America was once great"
True, and in many ways it still is. America is a great place to live, considering the alternatives. I am an immigrant here and I love my adopted country.
-"Elected officials should not violate laws"
That is self-evident.
-"America was founded not as a secular community, but as a confederation of demonstrably, palpably Christian commonwealths"
That is not my understanding of it. There are many quotes from the founding fathers themselves that suggest that they were not Christians in your sense of the word. Some of Jefferson's writings come to mind. I'm pretty sure there were many other non-Christians in America at its inception as well. Were they not also American citizens? In any case it is very clear that one of our founding principles is that the government should not endorse any particular religion.
-"It is wrong to teach that sexual perversion is acceptable"
Perversion is by definition aberrant; whether or not it is acceptable depends on whether the pervert is harming anyone, I suppose... It is also an adult matter. I don't think children should be taught about sexual perversion. BTW, since the 1980's or thereabouts, homosexuality is no longer considered by mainstream psychiatrists to be a perversion.
-"The U.S. Constitution is still the law and must be obeyed"
True.
-"There is no law in the Federal Tax Code making the average American liable for paying income taxes"
I don't know anything about this. I hope it's true.
-"Most denominations and Christian churches are demonstrably unbiblical and not like the NT body of Christ"
I'll take your word for this, but I don't see why it's important.
-"Atheism is a system of religious faith...
Atheism is not a religion. It is not even a faith. Atheists are skeptics.
"and has been responsible for more human deaths by far, than has institutional religion under the banner of 'Christianity'"
Atheism is responsible for no such thing. Fascism, yes. Communism, yes. Not Atheism. Inquisition records and witch trial records detail the cruel punishments Christians reserved for unbelievers. To my knowledge, no such thing has ever been done in the name of atheism.
-"Atheism is a system of religious faith...
Atheism is not a religion. It is not even a faith. Atheists are skeptics.
Atheism is not a religion, it is not a faith, and it is NOT a system - since it concerns only one matter - the non-belief in gods. But Claire, you have to be very clear what you mean about being a skeptic because universal skepticism Is a system of belief. I, for one, am an atheist who is not a skeptic.
Universal skepticism is usually stated in two ways. The first being claims that man can know nothing, and this belief can be easily dismissed for the following reason:
"There is such a thing as knowledge. The assertion of this proposition is necessarily true if there is to be any assertion at all, for its contradictory is self-contradictory. If the assertion "There is no knowledge" is true, then it is false, for that assertion itself purports to be an instance of knowledge. Thus the only alternative to the recognition of the existence of knowledge is, as Aristotle said, a return to the vegetative state where no assertions whatever can be made." Francis Parker
"The second form of universal skepticism consists of the doctrine that we must doubt every alleged instance of knowledge. But the doctrine that we should doubt every knowledge claim translates into the positive assertion that man can never attain certainty - and this version of skepticism fares no better than the preceding, for we must ask if the principle of universal of doubt is itself to be doubted, or is it open to doubt as well? If it is known with certainty, at least one thing is beyond doubt, which makes the principle false. If, however the principle is open to doubt- ie, if it is not certain-then on what grounds can the skeptic claim greater plausibility for his theory than any other?" George H Smith
C.N Bittle on the issue:
"Skeptics either have valid reasons for their universal doubting, or they have no valid reasons. If they have valid reasons, they surely know something that is valid, and they are no longer real skeptics. If they have no no valid reasons, they have no reason to doubt. In the first case their position is inconsistent, and in the second case their position is irrational. Whichever way they turn, their position is untenable."
Before we can even begin to determine if we are atheistic about a case, the God that is being asserted must be described and given attributes. For instance, if a person said "I believe in God." and we asked, "What do you mean be God?" and he said "God is a sandwich.", I'd have a problem in believing that sandwiches don't exist - on the other hand I would know that nothing meaningful had been asserted. This is not capricious, some people assert, when asked what God is, such things as "God is everything." or "God is in everything." or "God is power." or some other claim without real meaning. We wouldn't say we are skeptical about it, we would answer that nothing meaningful had been said. If somone asserted that God was all powerful, we wouldn't say we are skectical, we would justifiably say that we KNOW that that god does not exist because the concept entails a paradox or self-contradiction, and contradictions cannot exist. Which is to say, that a thing cannot both be a and null a at the same time and in the same respect, or to restate, cannot both have and not have a given attribute at a particular time and in a particular respect, which is what is entailed what we ask, "If God is omnipotent, can He build a fence so high He cannot climb over it." Well, if He cannot build such a fence He is not omnipotent, and if He cannot climb over it He is not omnipotent. The statement can be falsified because a specific claim has been made. Any claims to super naturality can be refuted in this way. On the other hand, if, if the claiment asserts that God is subject to natural law, then the refutation takes a different path. But if we KNOW that a claim is not true, then we are not skeptics - we are certain - and then the atheist can claim not just that that case for God is unproven, he can claim knowledge that that case is not true and that that version of God does not or cannot exist.
""and has been responsible for more human deaths by far, than has institutional religion under the banner of 'Christianity'"
Atheism is responsible for no such thing. Fascism, yes. Communism, yes. Not Atheism. Inquisition records and witch trial records detail the cruel punishments Christians reserved for unbelievers. To my knowledge, no such thing has ever been done in the name of atheism."
Atheism asserts nothing more than the lack of belief in God, that is it would, if we can get a believer to even define clearly what it is that he is saying God is. If there is no definition, there is nothing to refute, and it is as if nothing has been said. The onus of the definition is the responsibility of he who asserts that a thing exists. It makes no claim beyond that. It has no politics attached to it. To say that atheism is responsible for the atrocities of Hitler and Stalin is like saying that they did what they did because they didn't believe in leprechauns - it is absolutely irrelevent. To claim that Stalin and Hitler were evil because the were atheists gains no traction either because there are plenty of Christians who have commited great evils and done so in the name of their belief, so doing reat evil is not restricted by belief, and they justified their actions in the name of that belief. Neither Hitler nor Stalin justified their actions on a belief in atheism - because there is nothing in which to believe - atheism is the absence of a belief - they did so on the basis of a belief in Naziism(or fascism) or in communism - to the extent that they justified it at all.
But to add to the sins of theists, since the Bible is purportedly the word of God, let's let Him speak for Himself - let's add to this list of sins the biblical support for human sacrifice, rape, pillage, child molestation, slavery, murder, and genocide, as in:
"He demanded and sanctioned human sacrifices (Leviticus 27.28-29); Judges 11. 29-40; Samuel 21. 1-9
Leviticus 27:28-29 (New International Version)
He killed the first-born of every Egyptian family (Exodus 12. 29)
He sanctioned slavery (Exodus 21.2-6; Leviticus 25. 44-46)
He sanctioned the selling of one's daughter (Exodus 21.7)
He commanded the killing of witches (Exodus 22.18)
He ordered death for heresy (Exodus 22.20)
Death for violating the sabbath (Exodus 31. 14-15)
Death for cursing one's parents (Leviticus 20.9)
Death for adultery (Leviticus 20.20)
Death for blasphemy (Leviticus 24.16)
Death by stoning for unchastity at the time of marriage - only on women, of course (Deuteronomy 22.20-21)
The Old Testament credits the Israelites, acting under the auspices of Jehovah, with massacring an incredible number of men, women and children through conquest. Time and time again we read accounts where they "utterly destroyed all in the city, both men and women, young and old, sheep, and asses, with the edge of the sword" (Joshua 6.21)...
In Chapter 31 of Numbers, we read that Moses, angry with the officers of his army because they had taken captives from a conquered people instead of killing everyone, issued the following orders: "Now therefore, kill every male among the little ones, and kill every woman who has known a man by lying with him. But all the young girls who have not known man by lying with him, keep alive for yourselves" (Numbers 31. 17-18).
Jehovah himself was fond of directly exterminating large numbers of people, usually through pestilence or famine, and often for rather unusual offences. In one instance, he is reported to have killed 70,000 men because David took a census of Israel (2 Samuel 24). In another strange case, he sent two bears to rip apart forty-two children for mocking the prophet Elisha (2 Kings 2. 23-24)."
George H Smith, "Atheism, the Case Against God"
If any man should do any of the acts above, he would be deemed evil. Should God rise to a lower standard than man?
And from Tom Paine (one of the Founding Fathers), in The Age of Reason:
"Whenever we read the obscene stories, the voluptuous debaucheries, the cruel and torturous executions, the unrelenting vindictiveness, with which more than half the Bible is filled, it would be more consistent that we called it the word of a demon, than the word of God. It is a history of wickedness, that has served to corrupt and brutalize mankind; and, for my part, I sincerely detest it, as I detest everything that is cruel."
-"Elected officials should not violate laws"
That is self-evident. Is it? What if those laws are evil and pernicious? This would say that the elected officials in Nazi Germany - Hitler was originally elected to power - should have done precisely what Hitler demanded, no matter what?. I cannot agree with this. This would be to commit a great evil, and our government has NO right to demand that our elected representatives commit evil. The teaching of the founding fathers was to resist unjust laws.
-"The U.S. Constitution is still the law and must be obeyed"
True.
So the XVI th amendment should not be resisted? Or if the nation is taken into a war of great evil, the citizens are not to rise in revolt? Does the state exist to serve the citizen, or does the citizen exist to serve the state? Now there were people in Nazi Germany who hid people from the state at great risk to their own lives - they should have obeyed the state and delivered those people up?????
I would only ask what the objective standard is that you use as a basis to make judgments of what is moral or just or right or wrong?
Absolutely, certain laws should not be obeyed, if they are immoral. My blanket endorsement of law was short-sighted.
I think "atheist" and "atheism" are useful terms, and although I don't usually describe myself that way, I think I understand what someone means when they call themselves an atheist. It means they don't believe in God. The idea that God means different things to different people is just not that interesting to me. There are a lot of terms like that, and for the most part we understand each other anyway. If a statement requires more clarification, then we can go ahead and discuss the terms. As far as I can tell, God is generally understood to be a certain kind of supernatural being. That's enough for me. I don't believe in anything supernatural, therefore I don't believe in God, and that would make me an atheist. If someone has some kind of non-supernatural God in mind, I really think it is up to them to make that clear.
Regarding skepticism, I think I made myself understood, although again my language was imprecise. I was referring the general attitude that things are not to be taken on faith alone, or on authority alone, and that it is a good idea to investigate dubious claims. Interesting lesson on the skeptics, though. I think I am much too opinionated ever to consider myself a skeptic in that sense!
Claire
Thanks, Claire, for being a perfect model of the subject thread (Ben Franklin's suggestions for polite discourse) and also for admitting you still have some learning to do in some of these areas.
So do I. I merely posed them to illustrate their common aspect: they're all fighting words in certain segments of society even though each of them can be rationally, dispassionately defended from history (primary source texts, not modern historiography) and from empirical evidence.
On the sexual perversion thing: most cultures for most of human history have ruled perversion as a no-no for very good biological reasons, as well as social and moral ones. Decadent cultures, however, tend to embrance sexual perversion as they embrace other forms of corruption. That's the West at present (and increasingly the East).
But if one happens to review the plague journal of history, he knows that perversion is bad. Or if one happens to read and take to heart the first part of the apostle Paul's letter to the gathered saints in Rome (Romans 1:18-32 or thereabouts), he sees that Paul lays out the inevitable cause-effect sequence of sexual perversion...and it's not what the hokey "homosexual ministry" preachers say it is!
Nope; the reason so many sexual deviants struggle more than ever "in church" is that these 'ministers' have it backwards, trying to suggest that the EFFECT is actually the SIN! For anyone interested, note the sequence in Paul's letter to the Roman folks (many of whose fellow citizens were steeped in perversion, and some of whom had formerly been perverts themselves):
First: the person who knows of God's existence from the entire universe around him, refuses to glorify God and instead glorifies himself, or creatures, or trees, or what-have-you...
Then: God gives the rebel over to whatever perverse ideas (s)he can come up with, and Paul THREE TIMES reiterates that this includes sexual deviancy...
Finally: The rebel digs his/hole ever deeper, seeking to pull others into the same mire, and approving of the perversion and all who engage in it.
So, is the sexual perversion the root sin, deserving God's judgment? No! It's actually one aspect of the judgment of God on the rebel whose root sin is refusal to give Him the glory He is due as Creator.
Until the rebel gets the order of the universe straight in his mind and begins to glorify the God that (s)he knows exists, God continues to "give them over" to perversion. So can we expect the $99.95 'recovery package' offered by "homosexual ministries" to help matters, since their clinical nostrums have the order of Romans 1 twisted exactly in reverse? Nope; it's wasted money.
But with cultural decadence stock gaining in market value these days (all over the world), the deviants just force normal folks to shut up about the whole thing. Accept them as 'misunderstood minorities' and accept the judgment of God on their rebellion as just an 'alternative lifestyle'.
Say what you will about God's 'cruelty' in the matter, the perversion lobby (and those that make a paying career "ministering" to every social malady instead of doing it for free out of love, and following the Bible they claim to follow) are much more cruel.
I agree about the "cruel punishments that 'Christians' reserved for unbelievers" but such punishments are now foisted on deviant unbelievers as "ministry"! In other words, religious hucksters advertising themselves as Christians still do some very cruel things. And supposed apologists for sexual deviancy do similarly destructive things, for purely selfish reasons. Both groups misrepresent the nature of reality, and young people are taken in: the deviant urges are no longer a red flag to the godless rebel...no, these things all must be a result of...um...parental malpractice! Supressed natural love from the very womb!
Because it can so often be faulted in the breach, does not diminish by a frog's hair the efficacy of faith in God, honestly lived out as Christ taught and modeled.
It's like the Tax Honesty thing, Claire. Perform your due diligence in study, and over time you may seem to become more intelligent, whereas you're merely banishing ignorance and apprehending what was there all the time.
Thanks for engaging in such a Franklinesque manner.
Why thank you dmzuniga. You're so... sweet. I must correct your assumption, however. If I'm nice I can assure you it's not because I am weakly attached to my convictions about truth, reality and reason. If anything, I'm so certain that they will win out in the end that I see no reason to be aggressive or unpleasant about it. Yes, there is a lot I don't know, but I am still learning and the more I learn the better I feel. You may be angry about recent trends toward atheism (correct me if I'm wrong), but to someone like me who has tried and failed to believe in God, for the simple reason that I was never able to talk myself into believing something that makes absolutely no sense to me, these trends have been very uplifting. You may ask why it matters to me whether or not atheism is socially acceptable. If I know it's right, then I shouldn't care what others think. Well, I'm far from perfect, what can I say. No man is an island and all that. If I speak out about this it is partly to help other people like me feel okay about not believing in the supernatural. If it were even more socially acceptable than it is now, I wouldn't bother.
One thing I cannot lay claim to, it is sweetness. In biblical phraseology ('fruits of the Spirit') I suppose that would fall under 'gentleness', which is a constant challenge for me.
I do very much respond to rational, fair discussion, however. It doesn't bother me a bit that you want to tell others about what you have found and what you consider to be ultimate truth...(um...that there's no ultimate truth?) I love America because it is possible (and still legal!) for us to hold antipodal views and neither of us gets thrown in the clink, or set on fire, or our head chopped off for it.
I don't think a strident, authoritarian Christian appreciates me any more than a strident, authoritarian atheist does. I firmly believe the words of Christ, that a lot of folks who say "Lord, Lord!" are not really His at all, and will be in for a terrible shock in the end.
What knocks my hat in the creek is the person who proselytises using blatant mischaracterisation of history, biography, etc. I don't appreciate the mendacious debater, or the one whose stock and trade is logical fallacy -- be he Christian, Jew, Muslim, New Age, or "I am my own god".
You are your own god, but you're a civil little deity, and you are self-effacing enough to disarm potential 'opponents' in discourse. Again, the Ben Franklin model lived out. I've seen much, much worse sitting in churches at "Sunday services".
I didn't mean to besmirch Franklin as a man, incidentally. He coined many great aphorisms and had much wisdom along with his Francophile vagaries...much like Jefferson. I could never attain such exploits as those Enlightenment Deists did, and I do not mean to diminish their major accomplishments for this republic. Nor can I (honestly) feign 'holier than thou' status with any of those men; I have to look myself in the mirror every day. As the apostle Paul lamented, I am of all men the chiefest of sinners.
This is the ineffable aspect of God (in your parlance, "of the numinous") taking human form and teaching all kinds of contrarian stuff about religion, government, men, women, and such. I see a very long procession of otherwise smart people accepting this preposterous proposition over the centuries, and dying very happy. Even while being barbecued and hacked to pieces. Ineffable.
Some here (hey, Scott from Oregon!) will say it is mere stupidity. Gullibility. This is fine with me; I'm not threatened by differences of opinion as long as everyone agrees to just not play fast and loose with those things that are verifiable. In New Testament terms, I don't have a gift of evangelisation but of teaching and exhortation. Teaching means you offer; learning means you accept. I have no part in the acceptance; I just study, synthesise, and spit out my results by the best lights I have at the time.
To put it another way, humans have no investment in whether the neighbor heeds the truth about the Christ. I've deduced this not only from the words of Christ, but perhaps more by reading some (terribly technical) philosophical work of Professor Alvin Plantinga at Notre Dame. The fellow Smith who begins to fancy that Jones' future hangs on his (Smith's) "soul-winning" efforts (or fool's errand 'Intelligent Design' apologetics) is a man truly deluded.
I don't believe that I am deluded, but neither do I consider myself too terribly wise compared with where I should be after all these years. Still, I don't give up the pursuit, and I'm willing to engage anyone at all in a chat (or a cold beer) if (s)he's willing to be merely honest.
Even the pursuit of wisdom is a chimera on this earth, in these mortal frames. Solomon received one wish -- anything he desired -- from God. He chose wisdom.
Then he proceeded to take several hundred 'wives', and to follow all of their various deities...and then to write the Book of Ecclesiastes, one of the most trenchant compendia of human wisdom ever. Rum thing; like Ben Franklin with his moral aphorisms and his 'Hellfire Club' orgies.
Few men are really 'sweet', I'm convinced.
I took your comment about me being "nice" as a kind of condescension and I was trying to respond in kind. So much for the subtleties of internet discussions. What is the "emoticon" for sarcasm? Something like this, maybe ):-l
You are clearly not "stupid". You write well, and you are fairly analytical. You can pick and choose from among an author's words which ones you can agree with, and you can separate the man from the message, as you do with Ben Franklin. Do you apply the same discernment to the Bible, I wonder? Or is it just that the Bible is the standard by which you form all your judgments?-- and if so, how do you decide which of the many contradictory passages are relevant to any particular dilemma? Should you be like Solomon? IMHO, the person who wishes to get his morality from the Bible still ends up having to make up his own mind about what is right. Moreover, there are many great works of literature and philosophy from which far better insights can be gleaned.
"Learning means you accept"? That is a handy view for the proselytizer to take, and one which he no doubt inculcates in his children. I take a more active view of learning. To me, learning also involves seeking and discernment. I will accept some things and reject others, depending on the evidence. likewise, I choose which sources of authority I will trust by how well they have proven themselves. No authority should be above criticism.
I am not my "own God". I have no need for an extra layer of self-hood. Nor do I make up my own morality. in fact I get my morality from much the same place you do, whether you are conscious of it or not: emotions from my human nature and ideas from my culture, filtered through my reason.
was intended at all. I took you at your word; you're right, sarcasm and nuance are undiscernible online.
I posited the offer/acceptance analog for ONE KIND of human learning, not for all, Claire. Sheeesh...now who's condescending?
As for you being your own god (not 'God'), it was a handy analogy. I could have cast it in terms of Logic and Necessity, or ontological regression, or supreme authority...but you get my drift; you're a smart woman.
So. Claire is the supreme authority of her personal cosmological frame. Regardless how accurate your self-assessment may be (of your congitive or intellectual capacities, database, experience, etc) or how accurate your assessment may be of any/all of your other human authorities...your universe is still functionally bounded by your own brain. If Claire decides that something is, then in Claire's world, it is; whether a higher authority comes along or not, Claire has veto power in her universe. She can accept or reject that authority, based on her 'reason'.
But the history of science is rife with mentally unstable persons and with those whose theories once held the priesthood of Mathandscience in thrall, but later were proven to be mere superstition.
But when you can move the goalposts around at will (as atheists do with history, science, and ethics) you can make 100% scoring shots! Everything is subordinate to Claire's mind/reason/what she ate last night. Your own reason (with its own limitations) is your supreme authority, thus it is accurate to posit that Claire is her own supreme being. But the gist of my comment was about atheists generally, not just you, Claire.
A sweet-spirited, gracious, beautiful lady, yet a 'practicing' atheist was new to me. It seems to me that atheism and bitterness go hand in hand; or at least that's been my experience so far. Now you suggest that your sweet spirit was mere sarcasm? Bah. I don't believe it! I think you're an anomalous atheist, or a conflicted one.
David
Its best you just quit responding to Claire as I'm afraid she is getting the better of it. Half of what you write is non-responsive to the claims she made. Consistently citing the Bible is a logical fallacy in a metaphysical discussion - as I am sure you are aware. If not, its called the argument from authority fallacy - and in this case, as you so often cite the Bible or more precisely, the words of Jesus (you are not a christian per se, right? Just a follower of the Christ?) it is presumed that the appeal here is to God's words as spoken through Jesus. Which presupposes both that God exists, Jesus exists, and that God spoke through Jesus (or God is Jesus) and intended that message to get to us. Claire and others (myself included) reject this basis of support for any position as man made folklore, fairytale and outright historical copyright infringement from previous religions which does not add anything to the discussion other than your own opinion & interpretation of what Jesus, if he were real and the son of God (or is God) and everything in the Bible were literally true - would say on a subject. This is too much.
And it is beyond arrogant to diagnose Claire, or all athiests - with such a broad brush as you do in the post above. Claire is kind and patient -and writes quite well. She is obviously intelligent but whats more: she knows the limitations of her own reason and seeks information from all sources and all sides before committing to any idea/claim/whatever - which is something we all should do. I am neither nice nor patient like Claire. So please, quit fucking preaching already! Every subject does not need to devolve into a religiously motivated us v. them athiesm vs believers chat. Its great that you are so knowledgable of all things MANKIND - but shit man, cease and desist with the religious meme in threads not related specifically to religion. Besides, when you do that in those types of off-topic threads, you are close to making another logical fallacy - the ad hominem - by assuming there is something diagnosable/wrong about Claire's condition (as an athiest) that needs explanation. It don't. It never will.
~K~
I guess it don't [sic], then. As to the rest of your tirade...or atheists railing against Christians here (or attempting to proselytise them into their 'non faith') I spoke to the folly of that a few hours ago, below. If both sides agreed to leave their faith and theories outside, this site might become something efficacious for liberty. But when all the religions (including atheism) go sparring, a chat room turns into a cat-room, and no mistake. It's the common scene in post-Christian American chatrooms.
If you will survey the posts of both sides dispassionately, you will see the pointlessness of the exercise. But secular humanists can no more be dispassionate about their belief system than can religious theists.
It's a sad spectacle, Windy.
Sed satis verborum.
try to understand that not believing in a superbeing, be it jesus, poseidon, or ceiling cat, is not a belief. numerous people have tried to calmly explain this to you, apparently to no avail. you have a belief in a superbeing in the sky, this belief is called religion. lack of such belief is not another religion. can you understand this?
also, stop trying to make it seem like people who chose not to be delusional attack the christian faith. religious notions are ridiculous regardless of what you call the superbeing you're willing to slaughter people for.
" If Claire decides that something is, then in Claire's world, it is; whether a higher authority comes along or not, Claire has veto power in her universe."
Aristotle! Need I say more?
Or in Lewis Black's terms, "fossils, fossils, fossils!"
Good morning Dave, Claire. Nice day for some myth-busting, eh? :)
Tom Mullen
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Good afternoon, Tom. You're late and I have a design deadline so I need to leave until this evening.
If you want to "myth-bust" (atheistspeak for "let's argue about the God that we really, really hope doesn't exist") I direct you to the Blue Outhouse aisle over in the book review forum. You know, the thread where I chunked the "Atheists are Idiots" jibe at you a week ago? Scott is still hyperventilating 200 posts and 2500 views later!
I left him muttering to himself yesterday, and I'm not going back. Let me know if Scott posts 200 more posts on that thread. (See the things you make me do, Thomas? For shame!)
We've veered far from the thread subject of gracious public discourse. I have proposed that it seems to me a far more efficacious use of people's time, to steer clear of arguing about eternally indeterminate subjects. I am certain that the enemies of liberty just love to see all the Taxpayers in the 'fair share' line arguing about the existence of God, or the genesis of known life forms, or North vs South, or donkey vs elephant. As long as the arguing masses keep letting their paychecks be skimmed, it's all good.
Oh my! Look here! This appears to be a very strong argument against evolution... ;)
I still care. Slow day for me. :)
Tom Mullen
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Great post, Julie!
A good tactic when you are debating something is to state facts and let the other person come to the obvious conclusion. The better informed you are, the more likely you are to be right. If your opponent doubts the truth of what you are saying, they can check it out for themselves. And a good outcome of any debate is each side coming out of it better informed. I think.
Claire
What a load of BS! I am right and you are wrong!
...if that doesn't win you over to my side of the argument I don't know what will...
Seriously though...I was told by my high school english teacher to never use the words "I think" or anything but an absolute when writing essays...I tended to carry that on into speaking as well. Though...she was a bitch (at least that is my opinion).
Thanks for the lol
Jane Asher
Great, now I can finally cite Benjamin Franklin when persuading people to speak more as in their own opinion and not as their views being unchangeable facts. I used to be this way alot, still am to a degree, just need to keep reminding myself to use alot of these:
- in my opinion...
- perhaps...
- maybe...
- what about...
- lets think about...
- can you help me formulate the right view on... etc.
Julie, your calm and positive nature is refreshing. We all can learn from listening~a skill so many have lost through the years of blustering and spewing forth that which we think we know. Thank you for your continued insight and positive seeking goals.
Jane Asher
Now if only I could put these ideas into practice on a consistent basis...
"Inexplicable humans...how can you combine so much baseness and so much greatness, so many virtues and so many crimes?" Francois Marie Arouet de Voltaire, 'The World As it Is" circa 1748.
"I also think that when talking to idiots the straight forward approach is more successful" You're right. I definitely agree we need to stand for something and truth is never arrogance. We definitely need to speak with conviction and straightforwardness in many circumstances , but in regards specifically to discussion on this site I think Franklins approach (in most circumstances) seems to be the most appropriate and effective.
Early on here I had posted this link to George Washington's Rules of Civility & Decent Behavior in Company and Conversation. I also noted that many of these social "rituals" may seem silly to us now, but practicing them was what won Washington the respect of the elite as well as the common folk.
This Franklin advise is perfectly in tune. Great find Julie, I really enjoyed it.
BTW Borisimo, I tried to close out your bold text for you because it somehow carried into my post, but it didn't work.
“There is more benefit from speaking out imperfectly than remaining perfectly quiet.”
~ Jahfre Fire Eater http://alphavilledecoder.org/
I'm currently reading Triumph in Paris, a quite rather long and detailed writing about Franklin's time in London trying to stop the war, and afterwards, his time in France working to establish and maintain an Franco-American alliance. It is a very interesting book, which I would recommend to anyone with more than a passing interest in the forces at play in America's founding and Franklin's philosophy and beliefs.
Reading the book one quickly realizes that Franklin delved in the upper most spheres and rarely if ever spent time below a certain strata.
Your argument on how to argue and converse 'must' :0) take into account the quality of people Franklin was talking to. He, just by running in these circles, had to be careful on how he spoke to influential and powerful people.
On the other hand, I believe that when talking with 'idiots' and not having the leisurely time to engage in such fun pursuits, we have a clear advantage of telling them a truth, or two, directly and to their face.
Every revolution and worthwhile endeavor has come to pass because of a few committed and engaged people who never backed down in the face of opposition or adversity. I can hardly imagine them parsing their words at all times.
Your writing is a great reminder to me to be careful when I speak and I'm glad to have read it. While I think it is great advise while talking with rational and intelligent people, I also think that when talking to idiots the straight forward approach is more successful.
Boris in Miami